Who do you seek approval from?

It seems that most of us seek approval from somebody or something whether it's family, coworkers, society or other entity. We all crave acceptance and some folks may worry about what other people think of them. It seems the person that we need acceptance from the most, is only ourselves. When we truly accept ourselves then everybody's opinions is just that, their opinion. If you are happy with yourself and truly like and love who you are, you will always be safe and secure. Sometimes we can take what somebody says about us and perhaps learn from this and change our approach. We are always learning and growing as individuals and if we learn from all our experiences, then that is what it's all about. The ultimate goal for all of us is to truly accept ourselves and how can you test this to see how you feel? Perhaps look at yourself in the mirror and say it to yourself out loud. Is it easy to do or is it uncomfortable? That will tell you alot about how you think and feel. It seems that the people who are truly at peace are the ones who really love themselves and don't let other's opinions create fear, anxiety, worry, etc. Is that attainable for everybody? ABSOLUTELY!! It's just a matter if each of us want to change ourselves or not. We all have the ability to do so right now!! How empowering!

Being happy in any location

We all get nice and comfy in our familiar surroundings and thoroughly enjoy visiting other places since we are on vacation and enjoying life. Then there are times when we are required to leave our comfy surroundings and venture into unfamiliar territory. Sometimes we are down right excited and other times we are apprehensive. But there is beauty in every town with warm people, interestings tidbits, and fun things to do. Surroundings do not make a person happy or unhappy, it's the person that makes themselves happy or uphappy regardless of location. It is true that some places have more energy and excitement but many others have a calm and serene feel. It depends on one's mindset how they choose to look at their surroundings and see the positive. Focusing on the positive naturally enables us to look at the wonderful surroundings we live in and being grateful for such a wonderful environment. And the added bonus is always loving where you visit or if you have to move, loving your new town!