Sunday, April 15, 2012

No Regrets

It's better to regret something you have done to regret something you haven't done. I love those risk takers in life that just do things and make things happen! Sometimes they are successful and sometimes they are not, but one thing is for sure, they didn't leave this earth with any regrets! Now is always the time to say the things we always wanted to say to family and friends since who knows what life deals us everyday. We never want anything left unsaid or how we felt about people who are important or made a difference in our lives. This applies to close friends and family or perhaps people who aren't as close but used to be and made you feel wonderful at the time. Anybody who has made a positive difference is owed a sincere Thank You and I'm glad we are friends or you made a difference. I have been reaching out to some people lately which has made me feel great since they know how I feel about them. And what is fantastic is that it has been bringing lots of smiles! When the heart is open and sincere, people feel it and hopefully receptive to the love. Of course, it's a risk and some may not want the gift but no matter what the response, I want people to know they made a positive difference!

I hope whoever reads this, tells someone how they feel with no regrets and the heart being wide open.....

Friday, April 6, 2012

How do people make you feel?

How people make you feel when you're around them is so important with family, friends, coworkers, etc. There are many people that radiate such positive energy that you feed off of them and you just feel better being around them! They smile, they laugh, they have wonderful outlooks on life and basically love life! Usually their lives are full of the same issues as other people but how they react and go forward is what makes them unique and admired. These are the people that feed your soul and if you're lucky to surround yourself with people like this, then most likely you are like that as well. I write alot about my family and friends because most of the people in my close circle have these wonderful outlooks on life and I feel truly blessed!

But life is not full of positive energy people all the time and how we react to people who are sad or negative is a choice. As the saying goes, happiness is a choice and not a destination. When we come into contact with sad or negative souls, we can sometimes avoid these people but if they are close to you or you can't avoid them, then how we react is the key. We can soak up the energy and have it drain us or we can have it bounce off of us. This choice is always ours! Life it way too short to not be happy and there are so many wonderful people in the world to share this with!